12/5/11

Silencing The Violence

Bullies who terrorize,bullied kids who are afraid to tell,bystanders who watch,and adults who see the incidents as a normal part of childhood. It's the deadliest deadly combination that form around our youth today!

                                                          
It astounds me how so many parents are numb to this bullying trend. Either they are too busy with work and life or they are just blind to the world around them. Not all parents are oblivious as many,but it shocks me on the amount around me in my own neighborhood.
Do we not see what a hold the media have on our kids? Can we not control our own homes?

We as parents play HUGE roles in the amount of garbage that we pack into our kids minds. With the research that I have done I have a few pointers to help with some of the defects that society have pushed on us to the point of choosing sanity or pleasing kids.

For Video games,which play important roles on how kids relate violently with each other:
  • Use Parental Control
  • Follow the Ratings
  • Set limits of play Time
  • PUT YOUR KIDS ON A MEDIA DIET!!!
  • Watch what you Kids Watch and Play what your Kids Play!!!
Most parents use video games as something your child can do while you do whatever. The result of this will eventually lead to the question: I don't know what's wrong with him?
We must take control because society,media,and school already have the upper hand in raising our
kids.

10/28/11

Bullying

Below are some helpful resources for educating kids of all ages about recognizing and preventing bullying:

http://www.stopbullying.gov/ provides helpful information from various government agencies on how kids, teens, young adults, parents, educators, and others in the community can prevent or stop bullying. You can learn what bullying is, how to recognize the signs of it, and how to get help.

Girl Wars- provides information about relational aggression and suggests different ways to stop female bullying. You can read case studies, watch role-play scenarios, and help your child develop strategies for ending relational aggression and pursuing positive relationships with peers.

Defeat The Label -a collection of social advocacy tools to help you take a stand and put a stop to bullying in your environment.

Teen Line-operated by teens, for teens, this website promotes a confidential telephone helpline that runs every evening from 6:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. PST. If you have a bullying problem or just want to talk with another teen who understands, this is a great resource.

National Bullying Prevention Center- you can use these unique digital resources that address bullying in creative, relevant, and interactive ways to engage with and educate others about the impact of bullying:Free creative activities 

Cartoon Network Speaks Up!-compiles video clips, pictures, tip sheets, and polls related to bullying. Network actors speak up about bullying issues and talk about the benefits of taking appropriate action in these situations.


10/26/11

The Great System

The Learning Environment

  • Prepare
  • Ask
  • Gather
  • Evaluate
You can prepare your students mind in many of different ways,but are they usually effective?
Ive learned that teens are easily distracted and can be sometimes on the lazy side. I found that getting them prepared versus telling them has been my most effective tool today!
Get rid of distractions. Do your best as a parent to reduce the use of cell phones or any network sites through out the work day. 
This should come as a privilege for them and they will be eager to finish their work in a timely manner. 
A clean area,is a happy one,so please believe that clutter brings chaos!  


Since the mind works very well at finding answers to questions,let's start first with asking first and not so quick to browse the answers. 

The browsing process does many important things for your learning,but when all else fails,let them know you are there for any unanswered questions. 
"I don't have all the answers,but I know how to find them."

Gathering resources is always a tough challenge,especially on the net. If you don't have a filtered system,it would be a great deal to have one put on their working computer. 

When gathering the sources they need for research, you never want them to run into something that may cause other questions to surface,especially if you're not ready. 

Keeping them safe from predators is always the main priority,the world wide web can be a very scary place if approached wrong.

My most prized moment is when my kids took the taks test then,and passed with commended performance! 
Something that never happened in public school! Evaluating their progress through out the year is essential to knowing that you're doing something right!


10/21/11

"Erasing the Fear"

  • Stay Focused!
  • Be Creative!
  • Never Give Up!

Your goal is to get your child to "grade level" and proficient in their building-block skills by third grade.
There are common benefits in each program.They all provide opportunities for your students to learn,it could be a parent or certified teacher;again you make the decision to decide what's best for your child! 

You Choose

Virtual Homeschooling allows you to take control of your child's future. Become passionate about researching and using different strategies for success.               




10/14/11

Homeschooling FAQ's

The number one question people always ask: "What are the laws regarding home school?"

Get Educated!
Stay Informed!
Get Involved! 


Every state has a website about their legislature; take the time to find yours and check it over. The most important thing to realize is that homeschooling is legal in every state of this nation. But each state has its own set of rules regarding homeschooling,so it is essential that you check out yours in order to have a clear understanding of them,you can find this out most of the times by asking other homeschoolers,contacting your state homechooling support group,and by going on-line to do research.

Homeschooling laws differ from sate to state in seven main areas:
  • Testing
  • Equivalency
  • Records
  • Registration
  • Notification of intent to homeschool
Remember only you as a parent know whats best for your child. No one else can make this decision for you. Homeschooling is not for everyone,so talk it over with your spouse and children. The ultimate goal is to provide the best education for your child in the best environment for learning! 

It took me three years to come up with a final decision,not that this would be your outcome,but I didn't have the confidence in myself to do so. Now that this is their 2nd year,I hate the fact that I didn't do it sooner!

10/3/11

Cliche Unfolded!

9/26/11

Walking in his Image


Parenting 101 should always start with the Word of God. Even if you are not a Christ follower yet,we all need prayer for something.

Just posting something today to keep you connected!

9/15/11

Homeschool Newsletter

Homeschool Newsletter

9/13/11

To TV or not to TV

We have found that limiting television time is the single most effective tool for getting the most out of homeschooling. Try limiting TV watching,video game playing,and Internet surfing to two days a week.

We found that earning TV time or game play time motivates them not to just do their work,but care about what they do. They no longer take for granted of the small things like watching TV. They feel good about earning their time.
We start them out watching a 30 min show once a week of their choice(approved of course) and 1 movie a week. They would then have to gradually earn air time. I know;it sounds like they are auditioning for a spot in a movie,but this really works for us. If grades are kept up and they have earned enough,they can now watch 30 min.shows a night before bed time. If they slack off,days decrease!


Try a one month-sabbatical. If you conduct the experiment during the summer,it won't seem like a punishment associated with homeschooling,and most of the shows are reruns then anyway. Such rules cause fewer hard feelings,are easier to enforce,and are less draining than negotiation on a day-by-day basis.

9/7/11

School Mind Versus Education Mind

School Mind


Compulsory attendance (time in institution away from real world) + Curriculum (study chosen by strangers and lack of interest) + focus on Lack of meeting existing standards (tests,measuring against others + "fix the child to fit in" mentally) = Schooling


Education Mind

Time (freedom and opportunity) + Purpose (intrinsic motivation and interest) + focus on what is being achieved (love and support) = Education

9/1/11

Info Sessions & Events

You can always learn more about Connections at these informational sessions. It's a great way to stay connected and involved.

Getting Started: Online Info Session Thursday, September 01 6:30 pm CDT

8/29/11

Free Online School in Texas

Students in grades 3–10 throughout Texas are thriving at Texas Connections Academy @ Houston (TCAH), a tuition-free online public school. TCAH gives students the flexibility to learn at home with a curriculum that meets rigorous state education standards. TCAH offers:
  • A challenging curriculum developed by leading education experts.
  • Instruction from state-certified teachers experienced in online instruction.
  • Support from trained counselors,principles,and administrative staff.
  • Free text books, materials, and computer equipment (including a subsidy for Internet service) needed to participate in a dynamic online learning environment. 

    http://www.connectionsacademy.com/texas-houston-school/home.aspx